“It’s not about having everything you want. It’s not about figuring out some big secret and unlocking the answers to the Universe. It’s not about acting right, saying all the right things or doing what ‘they’ want you to do. It’s not about having a life that checks all the boxes~boxes of expectations we carry around in this life and try to hand to other people. And maybe that’s why it’s so hard to find what we think we’re looking for. Because we are only thinking of us. We are part of an incredible universe that shapes us every single day but that we are never the only ones in control of. And yet we try so hard to shape the world into a place that we want to live. It’s not about trying to change the world to give ourselves a better life. It never has been. It’s about changing our lives to give this world a better us.” 
